The One and Only First Birthday Celebration

21 Nov The One and Only First Birthday Celebration

Whether you’re planning an intimate gathering of close friends and family or an all-out birthday bash, your baby’s first birthday celebration is going to be special! Everyone loves a reason to celebrate, and though your baby probably won’t remember this special day of his, this day is definitely a celebration for the parents as much as the baby.

Yet for what it’s worth, before getting started on your own ‘Evite’ masterpiece, take some time to pause and consider the following.

1. Pinterest and Co. has already spoiled the affair

Take Pinterest and combine it with misplaced enthusiasm, some pent-up creativity, a pinch of sleep depravity and some competitive drive and you have a cocktail designed to obliterate the well-intentioned birthday party.

Fairy bread and rubber balloons from IGA are surely all that’s necessary.

My son was recently invited to a superhero party, the invitation came complete with an embroidered, silk cape and felt eye-mask. The note attached? ‘looking forward to YOU celebrating ME’. Please!

Moms and dads of pending 1-year-olds, you don’t have to feel guilted into raising the birthday party standard. Take it easy (on yourself and the rest of us!) and save the money and sweat for something that will count (and that she’ll remember).

2. She hates a crowd

A big mob + big noise + big fuss = 1 spooked toddler. Plus, remove her daytime nap, and you will in all likelihood, witness an undiluted birthday baby meltdown.

Everyone wants a piece of her, and she doesn’t want a piece of them. The hugs and fondles are well-intentioned but this birthday bundle won’t want a bar of it.

The friends of hers that come are not actually her friends. She has two friends, mom and dad, the rest, she’s wishing, were not there at all.

3. She’s TOTALLY clueless what all the fuss is about.

She’ll be the least excited there. She’ll be sitting perplexed… wondering, what the heck…

4. Presents are a waste of money

You know those cute chubby hands she has? No good for unwrapping.

Don’t worry though, in two years time, she’ll screw up her nose at your friend’s gifts. You’ll have the challenge then of addressing her under-developed sense of gratitude and her inversely proportioned sense of entitlement.

You have a couple of years where the wrapping itself is the most enjoyable part of her gift receiving though. If you’re going to spend money, make sure the present has an excellent box or cellophane wrap. Win!

5. She’ll probably sleep through it

If everything’s been going well this past year, then baby’s ‘routine’ by now is rock solid and non-negotiable. You’ll need to ask yourself if you’re willing to ‘ruin’ her day by forcing her to stay awake!

6. Thank you notes…

Because you’re such a great parent you WILL scribe the obligatory thank you notes for all. You won’t be thanking yourself.

7. Cake time!

Imagine… a sea of unfamiliar faces overly-enthusiastically singing at you and you don’t understand why. Youtube this. It’s educational. Do it.

In conclusion…

You may be thinking, Lucy, what’s gotten into you? Why so dark and surly?

My response to you….

Let’s face it, birthday #1 is a moment like no other!

Mom and dad, you are now one year into an extraordinary journey. This day is a landmark for your family as you undertake the immense project of socializing your own homo-sapien into our wild world.

A year ago, you were thinking ‘I can’t believe I’m expected to raise a child’ and look at you now! You’re nothing short of remarkable and have accomplished so much.

Who’s the party for? Make it about your family and the life that you’re enjoying together. Celebrate the trials and delights that family life has taken you through this past year and anticipate all that’s to come.

My encouragement to you on this momentous first birthday?

Dumb it down a bit and get that cutie into bed (where she really wants to be). Then, put your feet up, crack open some bubbly, exchange a high-five and give yourselves three cheers… for a first year well done!


LUCY HERCUS
Mom of six fabulous kids and foster-mom to numerous others. Event manager, doula, childbirth educator, lactation counselor, owner of Sydney Birth Support, Mamaway Advocate and an encourager of all moms out there giving it their best crack!
Mia Lo
mia.lo@mamaway.com
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